
I Beg Your Pardon (Small Group Lesson)
Thursday, November 17th, 2011
Open
Please share your answer to one or two of the following:
- What is the most significant thing that has happened to you since we last met?
- How long have you ever held a grudge against someone? How did you (or will you) resolve it?
- Where did you grow up?
Study
Please read Matthew 18.21-35 and discuss the following with your group:
- In what ways do you see forgiveness as an obligation? As an opportunity?
- Why would it be a good idea to be “extravagant” in forgiveness?
- See Genesis 4.23-24 – How is Jesus using this event to teach about forgiveness? How do we generally feel about taking revenge?
- How does forgiveness bring a sense of freedom to us? How is an unforgiving spirit imprisoned?
- What are some consequences to an unforgiving attitude?
- Based on the parable Jesus taught, what is God’s forgiveness like? Ours?
- How is forgiveness life-giving to the one who forgives? How is it life-giving to the one forgiven?
Apply
- Why do you think it is hard for us to be forgiving to others? What specific things can we do to become more forgiving?
- What role does Bible study play in the forgiveness process?
- What are some reasons we may not want to forgive? How can we overcome these?
- In what ways is forgiving a threat to you? What would help you to feel less threatened?
Open
Please share your answer to one or two of the following:
- What is the most significant thing that has happened to you since we last met?
- How long have you ever held a grudge against someone? How did you (or will you) resolve it?
- Where did you grow up?
Study
Please read Matthew 18.21-35 and discuss the following with your group:
- In what ways do you see forgiveness as an obligation? As an opportunity?
- Why would it be a good idea to be “extravagant” in forgiveness?
- See Genesis 4.23-24 – How is Jesus using this event to teach about forgiveness? How do we generally feel about taking revenge?
- How does forgiveness bring a sense of freedom to us? How is an unforgiving spirit imprisoned?
- What are some consequences to an unforgiving attitude?
- Based on the parable Jesus taught, what is God’s forgiveness like? Ours?
- How is forgiveness life-giving to the one who forgives? How is it life-giving to the one forgiven?
Apply
- Why do you think it is hard for us to be forgiving to others? What specific things can we do to become more forgiving?
- What role does Bible study play in the forgiveness process?
- What are some reasons we may not want to forgive? How can we overcome these?
- In what ways is forgiving a threat to you? What would help you to feel less threatened?
